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I was hoping to find a book on the psychology of being judgmental. This is not that book. This book is about the theology of being judgmental, and the author is a Christian theologist. Had I known that, I would not have bought this book. I have nothing against religion; it's just that I was looking for a book based on psychology.

Apart from the theology, I also had issues with the content of the book. The author seems to have an academic knowledge of some of the topics he writes about. For instance, his section on narcissism left me feeling that he did not have extensive experience with narcissists. In short, he states that we should not condemn them, not be judgmental of their condition, and:

"what narcissists desperately need is the internalization of grace, a deep sense of acceptance, which can free them from their own painful self-preoccupations."

This is a naive statement. Has the author ever dealth with full-blown narcissists? He gives no evidence that he has. His backing arguments mainly cite one study. In fact, whole sections of some chapters are heavily based on one study.

The first 50 pages or so were fairly good, hence the 2 stars. The author rarely mentions theology and/or religion. It's in the rest of the book (the last 80 pages) that he writes more and more about theology and/or religion.

There is a whole section on pluralism that I'm not sure is relevant to being judgmental. The author's argument is maybe we SHOULD be judgmental in some instances, and not take pluralism to an absolute with no judgements on anyone nor anything. I can buy this, but what does this have to do with being judgmental? That's it's okay to be judgmental sometimes? When is it okay? The author is just making a case against pluralism as an absolute. Fine, but it doesn't belong in the book.

He lists some suggestions on how to deal with an authoritarian-minded person which are just plain glib. I was, frankly, offended by his suggestions. Again, has the author ever dealt with authoritarians? If so, where is the proof? Where are his case studies from his own experience? In most books on psychology I have read, the author would cite case studies from their own practice and experience. There are none here.

The book may serve as an introductory outline on being judgmental. The author does have a few good insights. However, there is just not enough depth to recommend this book. The majority of the material is superficial and does not have adequate supporting material.


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Making Judgments Without Being Judgmental Nurturing a Clear Mind and a Generous Heart Terry D Cooper 9780830833238 Books Reviews

Thoughtful and balanced presentation of this issue. Also includes a worthwhile excursus into narcissism--helped me look at this from another vantage point.
THis book was helpful to recognize that it is OK to make a personal decision of right and wrong. And that does NOT mean your being judgmental.
A great book.........just having a hard time incorporating it into my way of looking at people who do, say things I don't go along with.
This is one of those books that makes you cheer as you read along. Filled with so many great truths and good examples to further illustrate the points made by Dr. Cooper. Makes complex issues easier to understand. Highly recommended.
Best book on judgmentalism and listening. I have read many books on empathy and listening from workplace to relationships, but this is it.

Sometimes when making judgments, people think "they have a monopoly on reality". Grandiosity and self-exaltation are one of the biggest factors in our judging and not listening. We should have care and concern rather than condemning.

The author paragraphs in the book are written to make you think, "This is exactly how I think" or "I didn't know this about myself", delving into common subconscious thoughts.
This is an outstanding book that I use as a supplemental text in my ethics course at a Christian college. It frames the difference between evaluating or judging situations and being judgmental of people. Excellent stories and tables facilitate useful discussion. Cooper writes clearly.
Making Judgments Without Being Judgmental Nurturing a Clear Mind and a Generous Heart was a truly enlightening work which takes a deep look at the epistemology behind certain phenomena occurring in our society. I found it to be very informative of the underlying reasons for much of what is wrong with society today.
I was hoping to find a book on the psychology of being judgmental. This is not that book. This book is about the theology of being judgmental, and the author is a Christian theologist. Had I known that, I would not have bought this book. I have nothing against religion; it's just that I was looking for a book based on psychology.

Apart from the theology, I also had issues with the content of the book. The author seems to have an academic knowledge of some of the topics he writes about. For instance, his section on narcissism left me feeling that he did not have extensive experience with narcissists. In short, he states that we should not condemn them, not be judgmental of their condition, and

"what narcissists desperately need is the internalization of grace, a deep sense of acceptance, which can free them from their own painful self-preoccupations."

This is a naive statement. Has the author ever dealth with full-blown narcissists? He gives no evidence that he has. His backing arguments mainly cite one study. In fact, whole sections of some chapters are heavily based on one study.

The first 50 pages or so were fairly good, hence the 2 stars. The author rarely mentions theology and/or religion. It's in the rest of the book (the last 80 pages) that he writes more and more about theology and/or religion.

There is a whole section on pluralism that I'm not sure is relevant to being judgmental. The author's argument is maybe we SHOULD be judgmental in some instances, and not take pluralism to an absolute with no judgements on anyone nor anything. I can buy this, but what does this have to do with being judgmental? That's it's okay to be judgmental sometimes? When is it okay? The author is just making a case against pluralism as an absolute. Fine, but it doesn't belong in the book.

He lists some suggestions on how to deal with an authoritarian-minded person which are just plain glib. I was, frankly, offended by his suggestions. Again, has the author ever dealt with authoritarians? If so, where is the proof? Where are his case studies from his own experience? In most books on psychology I have read, the author would cite case studies from their own practice and experience. There are none here.

The book may serve as an introductory outline on being judgmental. The author does have a few good insights. However, there is just not enough depth to recommend this book. The majority of the material is superficial and does not have adequate supporting material.